Crackers, loud music and sounds of happy new year wishes. It’s 12.00 am already and here I jumped to the opening of this post, my lessons learnt and my takeaways from the year 2021. Have been jotting down this piece for almost 2 days now, starting with my 10 takeaways. The lessons I learnt 🙂 only helped the tough keep going 🙂
The year that was tough for all, mentally exhausting and physically restricting. I would like to believe that we all have evolved. The year was strange and it pushed me to limits, we got into the lockdown hues and we got out of it too – all this within a year.
It was a demanding year and more than anything else – it demanded consistency! I would not say I have succeeded but here’s a pat on my back so I emerged stronger for 2022. Here are my key takeaways for the new year:
- You can’t save everybody.
I have always maintained, stretching a little bit is always good for business. Stretching to the extent that you feel drained is not safe, you need to save yourself first. This is sanity and one must practice without guilt.
This situation can occur at home, in a typical client-service provider schema and even with your team, the training, grooming, hiring and firing is all the more tiring!
Give your best shot but please don’t be burdened about it.
- The biggest pleasure is doing things that others believe you can’t.
No, not like a rebel but more like an entrepreneur 🙂 Yes. In entrepreneurship or any passion driven task you would have to take tough calls where you will have to cross the path full of doubts, concerns and big no’s.
Sometimes you just have to do it. I am tempted to share my favourite hashtag here, #nomatterwhat.
The reason I said so has a story. I took a project which I was worried about pulling off successfully and was advised to not take it up because of the risk I was taking and I was excited about taking a shot and testing my capabilities. I am glad we are doing great. Besides, I did side gig kind of marketing experiments which were scary to me, got a mixed response but glad to share we are progressing.
- Be your kind of crazy.
Pagalpanti bhi jaruri hai!!
Being crazy at times only means that you are alive. So it’s all about being kind of crazy. It is okay to let your hair down at times, to sync into the moment and let it be.
Whether it is dancing to the beat, walking between work or colouring between meetings to de-stress, it helps. You would find it crazy, strange at times but allow yourself to be.
When we go too much by the book, we end up suppressing ourselves and that is not really a good idea.
- Count your blessings.
Life turns bumpy, situations make you impatient and you really feel like breathing. A bout of fresh air, a deep conversation is all you need. And sometimes even in such times you find your own company as the best companion.
Tough it may sound but in such moments, make it a point to count your blessings. That heals the mind and helps you bounce back. So when life gives you distress you counter it by counting your blessings.
- Do some physical activity.
In the post pandemic environment, I had written about the power of moving your energy. This year I learnt about the power of physical activity and it is enriching and fruitful.
I had this thought in my mind when I realised that it’s been days I see the sky or feel the air. That’s how my connection with the universe had begun and it’s enriching. Plus I reconnected with music and happy to share that wynk music sent a beautiful ‘rewind 2021’ that says I was among their top 5% listeners 🙂
- Take care of your thoughts.
Almost 2 years back, I went to see a doctor. When asked about the problem, I told him ‘I cannot shut my thoughts’, I remember correctly – I had further told him that even while coming to his clinic I have been talking to myself and sending reminders to myself about what all I need to share with you.
Those were the days of anxiety and that is when I realised the power of controlling our thoughts. I am not saying think positive thoughts, that something is not always possible but take care of your thoughts.
You are what you think. So take good care of your mental health.
- Dream Big. Prep Up.
No dream is too big and no effort is too small. So dream big and make bigger efforts or at least be consistent with the smaller ones. You are unstoppable.
The trick is to keep moving forward. Hurdles are obvious, circumstantial pressures are a part of life, all we need is to make a little progress each day – one step at a time.
You need to keep progressing. Whether it is about the ‘to do list’, ‘to read list’, ‘to learn list’, ‘to meet list’., make sure you are more about striking off the lists and not just creating more lists. Constant struggle for me but consistently chasing the striking off goals
- Work Hard. Party harder.
Rewards are important. Appreciate your hard work and celebrate with vigour. It is not always about splurging but it is always about having a time of your own. Do the due and do it the way you love 🙂
Sun, Sing, Family, Food, Doll-up, Dine, Disappear, Roam, Retail, Book, Bunk – pick your therapy and just do it. Come back to work stronger.
- Your hustle heals you, addict your mind to your goals.
Many would find it strange and a few would disagree too. But disappearing acts works, put yourself into hustle mode, take pride in your busyness (the real one), get addicted to your goals and peace will give you high.
It also works wonders for your mental health. Find it difficult to sync? Imagine this, you are really feeling low, down to dust and suddenly work calls you, demands your presence and you get busy without realising that you just ignored a thought battle full of anticipatory chaos but jumping into the grind! That works, I bet.
- Let them be them, let us be us.
Accept people as they are and accept yourself as you are. Don’t judge people or opinions, allow them to be and you will see that life gets easy.
Managing people is one of the toughest things we humans do. When you accept people as they are you automatically start working on their strengths. Because you have chosen to shift the focus from the problems and that is how you win. Your decisions become easier. Your relationships become stronger, together you hail and rhyme.
On that note, here’s a wish: May the year be a year of endless possibilities and we realise the power within, the power to rise and shine!
Upwards and onwards… Happy New Year 🙂